While a custody decision is often based on your past actions and relationship with your children, that doesn't mean your present actions won't affect the outcome.
Between 1989 and 2012, the number of stay-at-home fathers nearly doubled, and that number continues to rise today. Fathers are staying at home for three main reasons: 1) they suffer from an illness or disability (35 percent); 2) they have lost their job or are unable to find employment (23 percent); and/or 3) they desire to be the primary caregiver (21 percent).
As stores bring out their holiday merchandise and kids start to make their lists and craft their costumes, divorcing parents can feel more overwhelmed than ever. This is particularly true if you have recently filed for divorce and are "winging it" while you try to agree on a parenting plan. How can you help your children stay happy during a time of changing traditions?
If you are going through a divorce or child custody dispute, you have probably heard the phrase best interests of the child. Like you, courts consider your child's safety, happiness and well-being to be the paramount factor in their child custody and parenting time decisions. Yet, the standard is nebulous. You and the other parent may have very different notions of what your child needs. Who wins?